In order to live from a place that's genuine, and strong, I think we must live from the inside out. You know - allow ourselves to be full - so out of that fullness we can love and live with a real authenticity about it. That - I think is where love will be most real. It's about knowing deeply what we need, who we are, and doing what we must to look after ourselves. And not so much about waiting for some outside source (person or event or achievement) to bring our wholeness to us.